Why the heat hits, what actually helps, and when it’s time to stop “just coping” and get proper support. Hot flushes are one of the most common and frustrating symptoms of perimenopause and menopause. One minute you are fine. The next minute, your face is hot, your chest feels like someone opened an oven door, your heart may race, sweat appears from nowhere, and you are wondering whether you are melting or just trying to answer emails like a normal human being.

Menopause can feel like your body is changing the rules without warning. One moment you are trying to manage the physical symptoms, the heat, the disrupted sleep, the irritability, the anxiety, the exhaustion and the next you are dealing with something deeper. A shift in identity. A sense that life, energy, and even your relationship with yourself are being asked to change. This is why support during menopause needs to be more than symptom talk alone.